by Paula Kaye
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1 June 2025
B y Paula Kaye, Founder of Boost Consultancy “The business of business is people.” This was the opening line of a leadership talk that has stayed with me, and it feels more relevant than ever. It’s a powerful reminder that relationship trumps everything. Behind every transaction, every product, every service — is a human being. And successful businesses are built on great people delivering extraordinary experiences to other people. At the heart of any business is its people. Developing a strong culture where the values, mission, and vision are not just words on the wall but are deeply felt and lived by everyone is what sets great businesses apart. When teams understand the purpose beyond the tactical, it creates connection, meaning, and high levels of engagement and performance. Take that famous NASA story — a woman asks a cleaner who is sweeping the floor what he's doing, and he replies: “I’m putting a man on the moon.” That’s the power of shared purpose. That’s what happens when everyone, regardless of role, feels a sense of belonging and contribution to something greater than themselves. Connection and Recognition: The Human Need Behind Service As Simon Sinek writes in Leaders Eat Last, “Leadership is not about being in charge. It is about taking care of those in your charge.” When people feel safe, valued, and seen, they do their best work. And this is as true in hospitality as anywhere else. Service isn't just about delivering food or pouring drinks — it's about making people feel something. In The Power of Moments, Chip and Dan Heath highlight how peak moments — like being recognised, feeling understood, or experiencing surprise and delight — have outsized emotional impact. These moments don’t happen by accident. Businesses that design for them create lasting memories that keep customers coming back. We are hardwired for connection and recognition. Every customer, every team member, is looking to feel seen and valued. The best businesses understand this — and build cultures and customer experiences that reflect it. Hospitality That Connects: Lessons from Dishoom & GAIL's Brands like Dishoom and GAIL’s Bakery exemplify this human-first approach. Dishoom’s team culture oozes warmth and theatre; they create immersive, storytelling-led experiences that emotionally engage both customers and staff. Their mantra is “serve others with love” — and it shows in every detail. Similarly, GAIL’s combines high-quality product with a deeply community-focused ethos. They’ve fostered a culture where teams feel ownership, pride, and joy in service — and customers feel like locals even on a first visit. Both businesses have realised that their product is only half the story — it’s the emotional connection that creates loyalty. Embedding a Customer-Focused Culture As the economic outlook remains increasingly bleak, businesses need to continue to adapt, and keeping this human lens is vital. Here’s my top tips on how you can build those meaningful connections at every stage of the guest journey: First Impressions Count The first few seconds set the tone. Greet customers warmly, with presence and intention. Don’t be on autopilot; ensure you are present — make them feel welcome. Storytelling about what makes you special Make sure you share the stories that make your product, menu, or services special — communicate with pride and enthusiasm. Use it as an opportunity to connect. Offer recommendations, share stories about provenance and suppliers, and guide guests through the experience with confidence and care. Empower Your People Equip your teams with the authority to solve problems and create surprise-and-delight moments. Train them in empathy, not just process. As Sinek says, “When people are financially invested, they want a return. When people are emotionally invested, they want to contribute.” Let Personality Shine A well-trained team should also feel relaxed enough to be themselves. People don’t remember service that’s just efficient — they remember service that’s human. Attentiveness as a Superpower Use the quieter periods in the day as a chance to elevate attention to detail. Anticipating needs and responding with warmth can transform a standard visit into something truly memorable. Design That Reflects Care Even your toilets say something about your brand. Every touchpoint sends a message. Make it a message of care, reassurance, and attention. End with a Lasting Impression A warm, authentic goodbye can be just as powerful as the welcome. Invite feedback, thank customers sincerely, and leave them with a feeling that they’ve been seen and appreciated. Leadership in Service Leadership isn’t about being the loudest in the room. It's about creating the conditions for others to shine. Ask: “How can I remove the barriers that stop my team from delivering greatness?” Reflect, refine, and evolve constantly. The Power of Small Moments When your team notices the detail, anticipates a need, remembers a name — that’s where loyalty is built. The purpose of hospitality is not just food or drink. It’s about how you make people feel. And when you get that right, your customers don’t just come back — they become advocates. After all, you're only ever as good as the last memory you created. Want to embed more purpose into your customer experience strategy? Let’s talk about how Boost Consultancy can help you connect the dots between values, culture, and unforgettable service. www.boost-consultancy.co.uk