by Paula Kaye
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8 July 2025
Hospitality, at its core, is about generosity and making people feel welcome—whether they’re guests, visitors, or strangers. The businesses that stand out from the crowd are the ones that create real, meaningful connections with their customers. They build loyalty not just through consistency or quality, but through moments that surprise, delight, and linger in the memory long after the visit. Lately, I’ve found myself doing a fair bit of celebrating—birthdays, milestones, all the good stuff. And as you do, I’ve made a point of letting restaurants and venues know that we’re marking a special occasion. It got me thinking: which businesses actually pay attention to that golden cue? Who goes above and beyond to make the moment feel personal and unforgettable—and who completely misses the mark? Take the Permit Room by Dishoom, for example. They truly wowed us. The experience went far beyond anything I expected, from the warm, personalised touches to the generosity of what they offered. It left us raving to anyone who would listen. On the flip side, a recent visit to Josephine’s Bistro felt a bit flat. We got a “happy birthday,” muttered as we left—a clear afterthought that didn’t land at all. What many places miss is this: when a customer shares that they’re celebrating, they’re handing you a gift. An invitation to create a lasting memory. It’s your chance to make them feel special, seen, and valued—and to turn them into a loyal fan who’ll sing your praises. Brands That Get It Here are just a few examples of hospitality brands that *get it*—doing more than just scrawling “Happy Birthday” on a dessert plate: Dishoom Dishoom has built a hospitality-first culture where team members are empowered to choose how they want to celebrate a guest’s special occasion. That might mean a complimentary dessert, a heartfelt card, or something unique to the moment. One particularly delightful touch is their envelope surprise: diners get a branded keyring with a chance to win a free meal on the roll of a dice. It’s playful, memorable, and perfectly Dishoom. Pret A Manger Pret has long championed what they call “random acts of kindness”. Any team member can offer a free coffee or treat to a customer—no need to escalate or ask permission. It’s woven into their culture and creates unexpected moments of generosity that customers love. Ritz-Carlton Known globally for service excellence, Ritz-Carlton empowers every team member to spend up to $2,000 to create magic for a guest. It doesn’t mean they always spend that much—but it means they can. That freedom to act on instinct and empathy results in genuinely personalised and unforgettable experiences. Gail’s Bakery Gail’s nails the neighbourhood feel. Their teams often recognise regulars, offer samples of new bakes, or drop in a free drink with a handwritten thank-you. It’s not flashy, but it feels personal—like you’re a welcome part of the local community. The Pig Hotels The Pig properties specialise in rustic luxury, and their service ethos is all about personal touches. Staff might offer spontaneous garden tours, deliver a local food gift to your room, or hand you a sketched map of places to explore nearby. They let the moment guide the gesture. Disney Parks & Resorts The masters of magic, Disney cast members are trained to create “Magical Moments”—spontaneous gestures like free snacks, birthday perks, or surprise behind-the-scenes access. It’s built into the service culture and gives guests stories to tell for years. Flat Iron Noticing customer delight doesn’t have to be big-budget. At Flat Iron, every guest gets complimentary popcorn to start and a free salted caramel ice cream at the end. It’s a small ritual, but it adds joy and gives people something to look forward to. Rethinking the Opportunity: Innovating Around Special Moments This is more than a “nice to have”—done well, it’s a competitive edge. If hospitality businesses want to go further, here are a few ways they can innovate in this space: 1. Build Systems That Capture the Signal When customers share they’re celebrating, that detail needs to be recorded and flagged—across booking systems, POS notes, or team comms. Make it easy for teams to act on it. Better still, give them templated ideas they can tailor quickly. 2. Create a Library of Surprise-and-Delight Touchpoints Give teams a toolkit of gestures—small, meaningful ways to respond in the moment. From a free drink to a Polaroid photo keepsake or a birthday card signed by the team, having a creative playbook means more moments are seized. 3. Celebrate Beyond Birthdays Think bigger than just birthdays. Engagements, graduations, job changes, reunions, adoptions, new homes—life is full of milestones. Train teams to listen for these and respond with warmth and creativity. 4. Let Customers Curate Their Celebration Offer a short “celebration menu” at booking—guests could choose from a surprise cocktail, a special dessert, or a handwritten note. It empowers them and gives teams a heads-up. 5. Track and Learn From Feedback Use post-visit surveys or social listening to track when your efforts hit the mark. Celebrate team wins, share great stories internally, and double down on what’s working. 6. Empower Autonomy, Not Scripts The best gestures are sincere and unforced. Empower teams to use their judgment. Celebrate initiative, not policy adherence. Final Thoughts The best part? Often, it’s the smallest gestures that have the biggest emotional impact. It’s not about flashy gifts or high costs—it’s about noticing, caring, and acting. We’re in an era of anticipatory service, where frontline teams need to be empowered to pick up on cues and create magic from the details. If you want to build loyalty, word-of-mouth, and a brand people fall a little bit in love with, start here. Notice more. Personalise often. Make memories. Boost- Consultancy works with businesses to curate customer experiences that connect and build loyalty if you would like to hear more, I would love to hear from you. Email me at paula@boost-consultancy.co.uk